Does this seem weird........

debbiek1974

I do not have a relationship with my mother and step-father (they will not be at wedding), and my biological father has passed.  I want to have both my brother and uncle to walk me down the aisle.  Does this seem weird?  Opinions please.    Thanks!!

jsychien

Nope.  Not weird at all.

mcononico

I don't think its weird. It is your wedding and you should have people that you love and that are important to you walk you down the aisle.
GL.

MeaghanandMichael

Not at all! Go for it!

Sillylttlone

No! My mom is walking me! I dont have a father, and im not close to any of my family other then my mom. My brother is a groomsmen.

clbartnicki

It's YOUR day- if that's who you want walking you down, then do it! Who cares if it's a bit untraditional!

I'm having both my mom and dad walk me down, our minister said he had never seen it done before- but said it's my choice.

Krolik1519

Do what feels right. It's your day.

iwalktheline

i don't think it's strange at all!  i'm not at all close to my dad, so i had my mom walk me.  it's your wedding and every minute of it should be special and make you happy.  good luck!!

kbmeow

My dad has passd away.  I have 2 brithers.  One is walking me down the isle.  The other is doing the " father daughter" dance with me

snoangel79

Not at all!!! My mom had my great uncle walk her down the aisle. My grandfather passed away when she was in her teens and my grandmother's sister and her husband helped my grandmother a lot with the kids since they had never had any. I considered him my grandfather too regardless of him being my great uncle by marriage.
You do what you feel is right, I'm having two MOH's because I don't want to hurt my two younger sisters.

jwatts23

Not at all! I think that's really touching.  You want the people closest to you on your big day, I don't think it matters who.

Knottie6cd98948dcce890b

I'll be having my mom and dad walk me down the aisle. I say do what feels right!

sniksa

I think you have to do what feels right...IT"S YOUR DAY! My mom is not in my life and will not be invited to the wedding, but my father and maternal grandmother who raised me will both be walking me down the isle, and I wouldn't want it any other way.  Not every family is conventional...but that doesn't make it weird at all!  You're wedding should be a reflection of your life, your family, and what is most important to you- having the people who support and love you be the ones to walk you down the isle is really all that matters!

sandra78

This is not weird to me or many of the above knotties. It might cause older generations to ask questions but I would not be intimidated by it at all. It is your day and should be just as you like it.

debbiek1974

Thanks everyone!!  It's good to know a lot of people are in the same/similar boat as me. 
By the way, just found out my stepfather has terminal cancer anyway.  (