Open Bar opinions needed

EKobrenski

I know! I'm kind of sick of it, and I don't think anyone's mind is ever changed, but I still always read it.  This was pretty civilized though!

blinkeysgirl

I have never been to a wedding where it was open bar all night. it's generally open cocktail hour. I'm not saying this is the norm in  Boston or anywhere, but it seems to be the norm amog my friends and family. Most of the time your friends will have the same/similar thoughts or values as you do. I would follow in line with them or ask your family or wedding party for advice as to what to do.

I would say if you attend alot of weddings where people have open bar, then you should follow suit. They will probably expect the same at your wedding. And if you've never went to a wedding where there was one, don't feel pressured. There may be a few that didn't come prepared for a cash bar, may be upset and say something to you (probably not on your wedding day). But if they are your friends, you should be able to explain it to them and I'm sure they would understand.

I find it crazy that soo many people are here trying to explain themselves to random people and I hope people don't take anyone's respones too seriously or to heart. Your friends know you well and care about you, i'm sure they will be much more understanding than the people on the board.