So since we first started planning our wedding about 2 years ago, I've been telling my FI that I would like to incorporate my two younger cousins (ages 5 + 6) into the wedding. We're not having any bridesmaids or groomsmen. Just the MOH, BM, FG, and RB. FI thought it would look dumb to have 2 other flower girls in the wedding. Well his mother mentioned last week that it was too bad we weren't having any more little girls in the wedding because that way his niece would be sure not to throw a tantrum when it came time to walk down the aisle. So now, FI thinks it's a good idea. Figures!!
So I was planning on having his niece walk down with the RB and she would carry a little basket with petals. And then have my two cousin walk in together holding a flower pomander.
My question is, it's 3 months now until the big day. Is it rude of me to ask my aunt if my cousin can be in the wedding? She already knows that I have asked his niece to be the main flower girl. (My other cousin who I'm closer to already told me she wouldn't have a problem at all with having her daughter in the wedding)
Sorry for the long post!