Has made me really sad today. I have always felt like I can come on here for great advice, ideas and honest opinions but after the open bar poll took off I feel like that is really not the case. Nobody really knows anyone's situations or what their life is like and I feel like instead of the responses being constructive they became a personal attack on people which is pretty sad. I understand that someone posted about spending $50k on a wedding but did not want to have a full opne bar but why is that anybody's business. Everyone's idea of what is important on THEIR wedding day is different. Having ALL of my friends and familiy witness me marry the man I love is the most important thing to me and if that means I make sacrifices elsewhere, well too bad. I know no one personally attacked me but I just feel really bad when something like a poll can get such negative feedback. That's not what we are here for ladies. This board is supposed to be about support. Ok, on that note I stil lovbe you all (steps off of soap box)