You ladies are the rudest people I have ever seen. I feel so sorry for the poor brides that come on here looking for advice and you just tear them apart. Not to mention, your poor husbands for having to put up with your mess. And the language you use! None of you are very lady-like at all. Oh, and the fact that most of you are already married. Why are you even on a wedding planning site? You must have no friends, especially those of you who have like 15,000 posts. Get a life!