One of my mom's friends, who has known me since I was an infant, generously threw me a very nice shower this weekend. I really don't ever see or run into her, and probably won't see her again until the wedding, so am wondering your thoughts as to how I should thank her.
I have, of course, written a very nice note. Should I leave it at that, or give her a small thank you, as well?
I have a gift in mind, which I could go drop by her house after work one day, or could get her and her H something for our wedding week (it's a destination, and they're taking a whole week to vacation there, too.)
I also thought about finding out their wedding song (easily obtainable info) and playing it at our wedding (their anniversary is two days after our wedding date)- but wasn't sure if other couples would be offended/wonder why their song isn't being played.
Thanks in advance!