1.) My fiancee's little sister (she's about 6 years younger than us...we're 21 right now) is my MOH. We had originially discussed the possibility of her being my MOH months before my fiancee and I got engaged because I had planned on having several BMs.. After the engagement, I thought I didn't want any WP at all. However, his little sister thought she'd still be the MOH. I don't have a problem with her having that title. My problem is that with her being so much younger than us, no job, no car, etc. how is she supposed to take on the major responsibilities of being MOH? My mother is my best friend and she will be doing a lot for me, but is it okay to ask another friend to be in my WP and to help out?
2.) My FMIL is already stressing me out. She is dealing with several personal issues with her own marriage and getting seperated. She is constantly texting me, calling me, etc. to keep me updated on the newest drama and development. She is always complaing about something and claims she cannot do this or that. It's really petty stuff she complains over, but as someone that has depression, bi-polar, and her own stressful personal things going on, how can I just get her to shut up in a sense? I love the woman to death. She and I are very close, but I just cannot stand being constantly dragged into the drama and stress she deals with in addition to my own.
PLEASE HELP!