So, my wedding is March 3rd. Invites went out at the beginning of January. There's a girl back home that I was roommates with for a very short time (3 months). I haven't hung out with her in a little over 3 years, since I lived in my hometown. She had some issues with depression and stuff, and sort of fell off the face of the earth for a while. She recently got on facebook, and we've sent a few short messages to each other. I like this girl, but just don't ever see her anymore.
Today I get this message and she put this little poem at the top about true friends, and finding happiness, etc. You get the idea. At the bottom she writes "Please don't forget me for your wedding!".
So, now what? I probably have room to invite her because we've had a lot of no's. But...we only invited those we wanted and had room for. She was never on the original guest list. It never occured to me to invite her. I don't know if she knows my wedding date, but she knows it's coming up soon.
Should I just not say anything and don't invite? I know it was rude of her to ask...but just not sure what would be best here. I don't want to be rude myself either. Thoughts?
