I am working on our ceremony order, and I honestly have no idea where the signing of the registry goes. It seems awkward to kiss, then sign, then pronounce husband and wife; but this is what my FI has always seen in weddings. Help please!! Where do I fit this in?
Re: When to sign the marriage licence/registry during ceremony?
We married in Bermuda and signed the registry during the ceremony. We did the whole ceremony, did the kiss, then signed the paperwork. Once finished, everyone went back to their places and we were announced as husband and wife. Everyone clapped and we walked back down the aisle.
Here's a pic of us signing during the ceremony!
Good luck!
In the UK, this happens after the ceremony.
Not necessarily true. We signed ours after the ceremony. As long as you sign it that day, the government doesn't really care what time it is.
My sister had a small wedding the first time, and we all signed after the wedding.
[QUOTE]<strong>I think it also depends on the state too.</strong> I've never actually seen the couple & witnesses sign during the ceremony, but when I've been a part of WPs in the past, usually they sign just after the ceremony. For ours though, in CA, when we had to get our certificate, the registar required us to sign it there under oath, and then the officiant and our witnesses were the only ones to sign it after our ceremony the day of. We weren't expecting that, so it was kind of weird, and then a friend mistakenly told me that weekend that if we signed we were already married, afterwhich I start bawling thinking that we accidently JOP'd our marriage a week before our planned wedding. lol Turned out she was wrong though once I thought about the witness and officiant signatures.
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It does. In CT, we need to get the license & sign it, and swear to it at the town hall of the town we're getting married in prior to the wedding (no more than 60 days I believe?). Then after the ceremony, the officiant signs it & files it with the town. CT also doesn't have witnesses or blood tests.
It's really interesting to hear about the different variations. I would have never thought of signing it during the actual ceremony, but that would be super cute.
In our state, once you get the license, it's good for eternity (so theoretically we could have waited till we were 80 to marry). We signed it months before the wedding, and gave it to our officiant. He was a trusted family friend who had done millions of weddings, so we were comfortable with it. We honestly didn't see the document from then on until he walked up to us after the dinner and handed it to us with all the witness signatures (and his own).
What's also funny about our state? Hilariously blase about getting the license. Neither myself nor my husband were asked for IDs. A seriously bored lady just took our information down verbally, then handed us the papers. She was rather suspiciously meticulous about making sure we knew how to return them should we change our minds though...