So i'm DIYing my invitations and i'm struggling with the wording of the RSVP. On each person's RSVP, i'm specifying on there who is invited to avoid any confusion of who can bring a guest and that kids are not invited.
So this is what I have so far...
Please respond by
August First
Mr. and Mrs. John Smith
___Accepts with pleasure ___Declines with regret
Choice of Entrée
___ Entree choice 1
___ Entree choice 2
except its all centered... I can't seem to fix the format of that on here...
But what i'm struggling with, is do I address them as "Mr. and Mrs. John Smith", or "Mr. and Mrs. John and Jane Smith"...
or...
If I seperate them and do "Mr. John Smith... accepts/declines" and then on the next line, do I address the mrs as "Mrs. Jane Smith" or "Mrs. John Smith".
Also, someone said that saying "Accepts with pleasure/declines with regret" is presumptuous... do I nix that and just say "accepts/declines?
I feel like i'm over thinking this but I don't wan't to come across as rude! Help!