Our RSVP date is September 1st. As of today, we are still waiting on about 35 people to respond. According to my mom, no one's response came today. We need responses as we are having plated sit-down dinners. Is it normal for people to hold out til the last possible day? At what point after the deadline do I start harassing people?
Note: Most of the people who haven't responded are my fiance's family.