First, let ,me apologize since I've taken my ambien already and may ramble, skip details, etc.
So, fi and I are having an intimate, immediate family only wedding and dinner in Las Vegas next year. We will be having a big casual famiy/friends BBQ type party 2 weeks later, with no wedding-type things. Just food, music, fun,drinks, etc.
Here's the question- our chapel airs our wedding online live, and then for 3 weeks afterwards so people can view it if they wish. I'm trying to decide whether or not to make friends/family aware that it will be there.
My initial instinct is to not, since it seems a bit like "You're not important enough to come, so watch the fun from afar" or something.
On the other hand, I would totally want to watch if it was my friend, cousin, or something. I'm sure our mothers would spread it around a bit, and I don't want anyone to feel put out.
So, should I spread it by word of mouth, put the info on the wedding announcements, add it to our wedding website, or just not tell anyone unless they ask? I'm half tempted to put a link on my facebook after we get home, but that seems so juvenile and tacky.
Everyone I tell will be invited to the BBQ if that makes any difference.
Thoughts? Observations? Thanks much. You guys are always so much help!