Help! So my finance and I have so many questions given our particular situation. We are 29 and 30. Have all the basic pieces for starting our life off together, won't be taking our honeymoon until a year later (so honeymoon regs is out), and live half way across the country. Money would be nice but so would be items that take our home one step up....like All Clad, a kitchen aid mixmaster, camping gear, and a crate and barrel mulitpurpose dining table. We get married next summer and want to have this all ironed before we go home for the holidays and start getting bombarde with questions. So, our questions are:
1-We don't currently have a secure place for our gifts to be sent where we live out of state--NYC mail delivery can a bit shady when you don't have a doorman- however, some guests (like my future in laws) will insist on buying an actual item. Any suggestions for how we can address this when not home to watch out for the mail?
2-Our registry items are on the pricey end: 75+ with a few under 50. Is this okay? I feel like we are fishing for items that we don't need but are cheaper.
3- $$ is always nice given that we are just finishing grad school but don't know how to nicely ask...is there one?
4- How many registries should a person have?
Thank you for any thoughts.