I am having four attendants-- two who are over 21, and two who aren't. One of them is my own sister, who will understand that going out won't be possible, but the other is my FI's incredibly sensitive sister. How can I include her, without giving up going out to clubs and bars? Or should I not include her at all? I don't know, because I also want some other close friends who aren't maids to come, and I don't want the FI's sis to freak out and be hurt. Any ideas? Anyone been in this situation before? Thanks knotties!