Day-after brunch

legnaliz

My wedding is on a Saturday. Since most of my guests are from out of town, I would like to have a brunch with them before they leave on Sunday. Do I have to pay for it? Is it okay to have them pay for their own brunch? We would either be doing it at the hotel or at a nearby diner/restaurant. Thanks!

LucyD1029

If you're inviting people to brunch, then yes, you should pay for it. 

Soon-to-be Mrs. Vogt

We're hosting one at the hotel (only because there aren't any nearby restaurants. And yes, we're paying for everything.But, we're keeping it simple. Fruit, bagels/muffins, some homemade casserole type dishes, juice and coffee. If people want more, they can go out after, but I want just a little more time with some of the OOTers.

TiDa2009

We're doing a brunch, but will be making it ourselves.  Pancakes, bacon, sausage, and fruit will be served buffet style for a couple of hours.  We wanted to be able to feed our guests, especially the OOT ones, but didn't want to break the bank doing it.Essentially, if you invite then to a day-after brunch, you have to pay.  You can try spreading the word casually, stating that you'll be at such and such a place at such and such a time, and they're welcome to join you.

stina93446

You have to pay, especially if you tell people about it. You can't say, "hey, come to brunch" and not pay.

laurening

I wouldn't write it down anywhere unless you're just listing it as an FYI as a place that serves brunch, but no mention that you'll be there. Anything that seems planned implies that you're hosting. Have your parents and the wedding party mention it at the wedding or casually work it into conversation when you're going around talking to everyone at the reception,

steffenfam

I would have your family members spread the word, but casually mention how much it is per person, just so there is no question of who's paying.  Example:  "We're going to brunch tomorrow morning at 10:00 at Our Favorite Restaurant.  You're welcome to join us.  It's $9.99 per person."