Originally we were going to have a small wedding, with immediate family only present and then focus more attention on the reception.I thought it was a good idea, because the wedding part is boring...but now people are upset..blah,blah,blah.So, our reception is going to be in a banquet room at a restaurant...would it be weird to just perform the short marriage ceremony there so that everyone can be there to see it? and then carry on with the reception??thanks