FFF

bjporter88

Well put Kati. I guess I'm still a tiny bit peeved about it because of how shocking it was to hear so much crap for it when marrying young is pretty common in my circle and family and pretty much this whole area.

N.C.DoubleYou

I agree. Let's move on.

laladypoet

Honestly, if your family thinks you are too young, you probably are.see, anyone who can't make up his or her own mind is too young for marriage, IMO.

noelle24

Yea she deleted it, but unlucky for her, her full name still shows up when you search her SNI'm late to FFF, but I missed all that crap yesterday with snowsweetie.  Weirdly enough, I googled her after reading the prezzie thread and found out that the passcode to her bpics is her last name. I was amazed at how quickly I could find out her, her FI, her parents, and his parents full names, when she graduated HS, where both her and her FI work and her parent's address.  Did people really tell her this a long time ago and she didn't care? Really? Because a bunch of internet strangers knowing all that about me would creep me the hell out. 

mandysmear

My apologies NCDoubleYOU.  I guess I shouldn't have treated my english teachers word as gospel.  I wonder what else she taught me that was incorrect.  She made me look stupid on p&E what will I do?!1?!1!/!!1!?!::runs off to cry in corner::

CubsGirl05

I was all sorts of excited for FFF....now I don't know what to think.

laladypoet

this makes me long for the days of stefi vs. it'sMEEE

NicoleSahara

What have mandy and pumpkin been drinking this week? Prune juice? You are both grouchy.

mandysmear

Nicole I'm usually always a biitch.  However you are correct, I am having a shiity, grumpy week.  I have some  bitterness I need to get over. 

Mrs_AF

I was 21 when I got engaged and everyone's response was, "It's about time!" so...I guess to each her own.

mandysmear

I wish I fully understood what was going on for the stefi vs. it'sMEEEE.  I got here right in the middle and it was hard to get fully caught up on it.

bjporter88

Its creepy how many bjporter's there are out there in the interwebz.... but I guess that's a good thing.

bjporter88

Mandy, what's eating you? Knotties are the best therapists you know. Spill it.

mandysmear

I hate the company my husband works for.  But, I have to be all smiley and supportive because it's his dream.  I've biitched about it before here in there in confessions threads and what not.Although the other night I had had a couple glasses of wine and said a little bit.  So I guess he knows a bit how I feel.  Now t hat I've said it, I should just tell him straight up. 

laladypoet

mandy, it went like this:one day, there was a new poster called LROD. she and frankie got into it because LROD was saying how New York (where she lives) is dangerous, and frankie begged to differ, saying she'd been to places X, Y and Z. she also asked, "Oh, so what could happen to me in big, bad NY?" to which LROD said, "Um, rape or murder?" LROD was flamed to oblivion, made a new screenname (it'sMEE) and came back. she then confessed to being LROD, and frankie and stefi (who was also offended? I think?) started feuding with her. then MEE called stefi fat a few times.

FutureMrsDudley55

Mandy - I wish I could give you a piece of this awesome Cherry Cream Cheese Creme Cake that FI brought home. It would melt your sorrows away!

georgia_bride09

I don't know, that sounds just as lame as the shiit that goes on around here now (ex: Fried Monkey & MrsE). Also lame: people ALWAYS reminiscing about the good old days of StefiBeth, Ladybug, etc. Clearly they've moved on. So should you.

bjporter88

Ok, thats reasonable. Isn't it because of his hours? What did he say?

laladypoet

I don't know who Fried Monkey is, and I never see the really good fights. in fact, I'm not here that often anymore, and maybe that's cause I've "moved on." but thanks for letting me know I did the right thing!

laladypoet

btw, the reason I brought that up was because at least it was something to read. how's this whole thread grabbing you?

bjporter88

FWIW, I hate my H's job too, but thankfully it is just a summer job. He works 14+ hours a day 7 days a week. So I see him for 1.5 hours before I go to work. I feel single and it sucks. Is this a career job that he will be with forever? If not, just hang in there.

pumpkinpumpkin

Mandy - i realized as soon as I posted it that it was almost lunch time! Stupid stupid I am. Amoro...you better hope that MrsE was online when you said this, otherwise it's cowardly: I will never think MrsE is anything but a pita.I'm sick of the snowsweetie drama. SaltyPeanut proved her "not so bright"ness to me several times this week. That new tenfuryjane (I realize this is not her name, but I can't remember it) girl confuses me. What does it mean to be too in denial to have a bio?

bjporter88

I flame this firefighter chick on WNTW. I swear she has a dirty little secret. Or big. Ick. I'm curious so see how she turns out. Clinton and Stacy do work wonders.

TheSaltyPeanut

P2 I would like to know, other than board=bored thing (my mistake, I do know how to spell), why you keep thinking I'm such a moron?

mandysmear

I was originally pissed because they offered him night shifts in the interview, then when he accepted they switched him to day shifts.THey also have him in pastry.  Um, yeah he's a chef chef, not a pastry chef.  People go to school for that crap, he did not.  He went to school to make dinner.  FINE DINNER.  Not desserts.THen they decided that they should underpay him like whoa.  We can totally manage, we just can't pay off debt and save as quickly as we wanted.  I barely see him, but it's always been that way.  Our schedules have always conflicted.  I am okay with that.Lala - I love that you told me that.  That was all new to me.  I think frankie could comment on what's dangerous IMO.  She only lived in Korea for awhile...

georgia_bride09

lala, I wasn't actually talking about you wishing for the good old days, but it comes up enough with a few others that your story reminded me. Glad to know you've moved on. If not, you'd fall in the sad category. Sadcat.  This thread: lame. Somebody needs to kick a puppy or throw a baby or something.

mandysmear

dead baby jokes anyone? 

NicoleSahara

mandy, that was exactly what I was thinking! FI has some of the worst. They are so bad!

laladypoet

what's harder than nailing a dead baby to a wall?

mandysmear

i love them.