Can someone who is OK with it please explain "second weddings" to me one more time? I understand needing to get married soon for a myriad of reasons, but IMO you have to make that choice. You either get married now to solve all of the practical issues, or wait and deal with the problems while you plan a bigger wedding. I do not understand the need to do both. People have to make difficult choices like this all the time. Can someone maybe explain it to me in a different way? I've never in my (real) life heard of anyone doing this, and I know at least 4 people who have married into the military and 1 person who had visa issues to deal with. They all chose one or the other, not both. I really honestly don't get it.
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