Last night I ended up in a debate with FI's friend about keeping my last name. I was actually having fun, I love a good debate. Until Fi's friend said "My marriage will be more meaningful then yours because my wife will have my name and we will be a real family". I wish I was exagerating, that is actually what he said. I was just really upset that he thought it was ok to say that my marriage won't mean as much and we won't be a real family because I want to keep my last name. FYI he isn't in a relationship, so it was his hypothetical marriage that would be more meaningful then my soon to be real one. Mini vent over.