Chelsea

ootmother2

now was that really necessary to delete your post.beebee move

jackie8582

okay, Chelsea I am turning on you but babies are expensive and the younger you are the harder it is. I was 19 when got married (yes I am divorced for 5 years now) and had my daughter. Here she is 7 years old wanting a baby brother or sister and can't because we can't afford it. We won't be married for two years and then maybe a year after that will be able to have a baby! I will be 30 by then and I am okay with that! Take a deep breath and focus on saving money to have that wedding you want (even if you don't get any help from your parents) On another note, I want to print this whole conversation and give it to my FSIL who is 21, still in school and on a rampage because she is not married and pregnant! She even spent the whole summer buying baby stuff at rummage sales because she wants one soooooo bad and her BF is not even close to being on the same page as her. Sad part is she won't speak to us becuse this is "supposed to be the year she gets engaged and married"

Leah&Christian09

"We just feel like it's in our best interest to start early" What about the best interest of the child? Has that crossed your mind at all?

janedoe1113a

I didn't read the original post, but you have your priorities a little mixed up.  You should not be rushing into marriage so that you can have a baby.  Get married when you are financially ready and have the money to pay for your own wedding and then make sure you're financially stable enough to have a baby.  As a college student myself, I'm sure there is no way in heck that you can have enough money to have a baby.