Hey ladies, I know there have been a lot of questions asked about kids... but I'm sure you girls can give me an answer! We are still undecided if we are going to invite kids to the wedding (it is 2 years away, so we have time), but my parents are throwing an engagment party for us next month... now I know everyone who is invited to this party must be invited to the wedding, but does this include kids? Would it be rude to invite the whole family to the engagment party, but only include adults at the wedding? My parents want to include kids (at e-party and weding), but my FI and I do not (we're ok with kids at e-party, but would rather not at wedding), but my parents are paying for most of the wedding. (I know, they get to decide how they spend their money!) I'm just afraid if we have kids at this party then there will automatically be kids at the wedding. And with 2 years to go, I was hoping not to have to commit to that yet! TIA!
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