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did it take you to do the damn thang with FI/DH (if you have)...::Sexy time::Co-worker informed me today they waited 2 years. I can understand waiting until marriage, but 2 years without religious conviction? Holy mary mother of god.
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    We waited 9 months.
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    A week or two.  I wanted it sooner, he wanted to wait a tiny bit.Funny story...my friend got married last weekend and had the shortest reception ever so that they could go fuuck.  It cracked me up!!
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    [Weird long distance situation story snipped], and anyway, before we even met for the first time [swear to god, weirdest story ever, he stalked me over the internet for a year], I told him that I didn't sleep with guys I was interested in. That is, if there was relationship potential, I didn't want to start it off on that foot, but if he was fun and attractive but not long term potential, I'd totally slut it up because why the heck not, you know? Not like I have morals. So he knew we would not be hooking up on our first date, and then I'd be immediately going back to Maryland so it could be months, but that it was more reasonable to wait than to dive into the physical stuff and then I slept with him on the first date.
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    had the shortest reception ever so that they could go fuuck.fantastic.Dh and I: I actually had a bf when I met DH. Pretty serious, BF was a millionaire with everything a girl could want. Yeah it took me a week and a half to break up with current bf and hook up with DH. It was college and Tom Petty was playing. What more can I say?
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    6 months. Six frustratingly long months.
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    Well...we were friends for 5 years first. Then one night, things finally fell into place. I had a not serious boyfriend at the time. Things finally clicked on Sunday (nothing at all happened, it was all emotional), I broke up with my boyfriend on Wed, I was back at FI house on Friday doing the damn thang. Our first kiss lasted about 20 min and led straight to the bedroom. Most awkward, awesome night ever.
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    Almost a year and a half...we started dating when I was 15
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    Our first kiss lasted about 20 min and led straight to the bedroom.this. me too!!Jill - how old are you now if you dont mind me asking?
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    We waited a year and four months.  Or, rather, FI waited, I whined.
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    I can't really remember to be honest.  We met about 3 months before we started dating and liked each other for awhile.  I know we were "official" before we had sex for the first time, but I don't really know for how long.  Couple weeks maybe?
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    Not long. About 3 weeks. I seduced him too. I cooked him dinner on our 5th date.... wearing nothing but panties, heels, and an apron. And the dinner was good too.
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    Meaghan, I don't mind at all. I just turned 21. We're getting married in 2011, after I'm done w/ school.
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    Over 10 years.
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    We had jury duty for about a week and then dated another month or so. One night, after my friend's wedding, he got us this suite at a hotel, witha hot tub that was surrounded by mirrors...HE STILL respected me when I said I wanted to wait...I think I have it up about a week later.
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    Whoa Bec! I feel like you have shared this story before though... I am just not remembering...21 Jill? Are you the first of your friends to get married? I was at 23 so I can only imagine.
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    Wait Bec, are you awesome DJ story?
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    Over two years. I was 15 when we started dating.
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    FI and I knew each other for a year before our "one night stand" at  friends party on New Years. Neither of us called the other, we weren't looking for something serious and met up a month later at a fundraiser but I had a non-serious bf. Well I broke up with him on a Wed and started dating FI that Friday. And that was 3 years ago, so I guess we are both sluts. . .
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    We met, were instantly attracted to each other, so we realized we couldn't even be friends. I was married. Fast forward 10+ years, my Ex was leaving me for a toddler, asked me if I'd ever met someone I was instantly attracted to, and I said yes, and mentioned J for the first time in a decade. I had no clue where he was, but the very next morning I hit the wrong channel on my TV and he was on the morning news. I waited until my separation was filed, got drunk, emailed him, and the rest is history!
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    Yes I am! :) Full story in bio. I still get goosebumps sometimes when I think about it.
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    Actually, no, a friend from high school got married last week, and another friend is getting married in December. He's the first in his family though-youngest of 5
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    We knew each other as friends for about four years before I wised up and realized how I felt about him (he knew much sooner). When we finally got together, it was a few quasi-dates where we weren't really sure what was going on, and then on the same day we decided that we were actually in an exclusive relationship......... that was it.
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    We met on Saturday, first date Sunday, fukked after the date. Been exclusive every since.
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    Technically about 8 years. We knew each other for that long before the light bulb went off. Once the light bulb went off I was a big ho and slept with him the first night. That's ok though, he still married me.
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    It was sort of nine months.  We dated for three weeks when I was 14.  Then I broke up with him.  So we really knew one another for six years before we started seeing one another as adults. 
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    Yeah...we waited the year and a half, then......did it on the couch. And pretty much anywhere else we could find after that...
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    Around 2 1/2 years I think. I think I remember that we were almost to our three year anniversary.
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    We were friends for like 3 years before we got together as a couple (We actually met on a double date w/people that had long term relationships with).After both relationships fizzled, it took like a YEAR for us to stop being stupid and actually start dating. After THAT, it was about 7 months before we got it on.

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    like 4 hours...
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    2 months, but it would have been shorter if we hadn't been in an LDR.
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