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My fiance's THIRD COUSINS all invited us to their weddings. Do we HAVE to invite 3rd cousins just simply because we went to all of their weddings?

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    You are not obligated to invite anyone, but if you have room on the list and in your budget and want them there, invite them.The chapel I'm using and my budget are limiting me to no more than 50 people, so it's close friends, close family and that's it.

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    Does your FI want to invite them?
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    No, you don't have to invite people just because you attended their wedding.  You invite people who mean something to you and who you want to share your special day with.When it comes to keeping the guest list down it's easier to apply a rule to a group people to avoid upsetting anyone i.e. 1st cousins, 2nd cousins, colleagues, under 21s/16s etc
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    Simple answer is no, you don't HAVE to.
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