Wedding Etiquette Forum

Inviting pastor

We didn't invite ours to the reception....is this terrible of us?


Married October 31 2009
TTC since July 2010
Dx PCOS December 2010
Clomid/hcg/IUI round 4 = BFP
EDD May 13, 2012
Corbin Scott born April 19 (36w4d)
7 lbs 15 oz

Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

Re: Inviting pastor

  • We didn't invite our priest, he has mass after our ceremony.
    Photobucket
  • Is it too late to invite the pastor? From my experience most decline or just make an appearance but all the weddings I have attended did invite them. That is just my experience though. :)
  • Yeah, I think so.  Why wouldn't you invite the person who is marrying you to the reception?  And he's your pastor? Distasteful.
  • He is not our pastor. We are not members of the church that we are being married in. Neither of us really belong to any church; it was important to my fiance that we be married in one, though, so we found one that we liked near the reception hall and one that had a pastor with personality, and we explained to him that was why we chose that church to be married in.


    Married October 31 2009
    TTC since July 2010
    Dx PCOS December 2010
    Clomid/hcg/IUI round 4 = BFP
    EDD May 13, 2012
    Corbin Scott born April 19 (36w4d)
    7 lbs 15 oz

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards