Hi Everyone, I'm a newlywed this year & am planning my sisters bridal shower which is at the end of October . I don't want to ask people I know for advice because then they'll get mad if I don't follow it so I need your help!

What do you think of the idea of different types of jam as a wedding gift? There's a local farm for the disabled that produces honey & makes really good candy & all kinds of jam to raise money so I was going to buy 30+ jars & then put a nice bow & tag on it, but maybe this isn't a good shower gift since my sister & her fiance aren't associated with this farm in any way. Does that matter? & what do I put on the tag~~Congratulations, or their names & wedding date even though it isn't the actual wedding favor? I'm probably overthinking this but it's hard to plan all of this & work too! I'd love to hear about shower favors you've received & loved. I've been to so many showers but I only remember a few of the favors...my favorite was wild flower seeds but they never grew!