FI's best friend died a few years ago from cancer. Since then FI came up with the idea that he would have one of the GM's wear a different colored flower to recognize his friend. If his friend was alive, he would have been FI's best man.We are still going to be doing this, but we don't know if FI will wear the different flower or the BM. FMIL thinks it should be the best man, but I'm not sure. I could go either way. Cliff notes: Should FI or the BM wear the flower? TIA!
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