One of my co-workers (from another department) who also happens to be the son of DH's executive sous chef is in a coma and life support. He was helping his dad with some yard work this morning. He was on a set of stairs and was leaning on a banister when it gave way sending him falling down to the ground and then down a steep grade. He has a lot of head trauma. He is being airlifted to Puerto Rico as we speak. It's so sad. Please send you prayers for Keshawn and his family.
What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests. Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated.