First time posting!! I need help or maybe just a place to vent but here it goes. When we first got engaged we wanted a small intimate wedding. Thinking 50-75 guests. Our guest list is currently 160+ and growing!! I would say the majority of the guest list is from my future in-laws. We are a little over 6 weeks from our wedding and my father is insisting I add some relatives that I have not spoken to in years and to be honest do not get along with very well when we do speak. He calls me yesterday and wants to meet to discuss this. 6 weeks from my wedding!!! I told him I would have to call him back...and haven't yet. I feel like it is rude for people to be telling me who I should and shouldn't invite to our wedding. Especially since we are paying for most of it.