2 WEDDINGS

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Any suggestions on how this should be handled?nope.

SarahSmile23

can you do the other one in dec 2010 and have it be an anniversary party?

redheadfsu

Please don't lie. People will find out somehow if you lie.  There have been several threads from guests who had been lied too & they are very mad. If you lie you have to keep up the lie forever ( even your kids).You get one wedding, every party after is a vow renewal or anniversary party.

emilykathleen511

//We are going to have 2 weddings. One will be December 2009 which will be just immediate family//This is your wedding.//We are having the larger more formal wedding and reception in August 2010.//This is your vow renewal.//I was thinking maybe I should announce that we are already married when I send out save the date cards - Any suggestions on how this should be handled?//"Please join us August XX, 2010 for a celebration of our marriage"or"Please save the date for our vow renewal! August XX, 2010"or"We're Married!" Please join us August XX 2010 for a celebration of our marriage"or "We're Married!" Please save the date for a renewal of the vows we took at our December ceremony on August XX, 2010."THEN, on your actual invitations next year, word as such:"Together with their familiesGinarza Middle Lastnameand Mister Ginarza Lastnameinvite you to a celebration of their marriage as they renew their vowsSaturday the XX of Augusttwo thousand tenat half past XX in the eveningWhatever ChurchXXXX Whatever StreetAnywhere, Anystate XXXXXReception Immediately Following Ceremony"or similar. KTHNKSBAI