My husband and I are planning in 2013 to renew ur vows which will make our 5th year. We originally got married at the courthouse in Florida where we live and our two older children were there. Years later we want to renew our vows in NY where we met and with our family and friends and our 4 children. Any suggestions? Where should I start? I have been reading how we have to have color schemes for seasons etc...urghhhh I am stressed from the readings and I got a ways to go.