We got married a few months ago. His friend was his best man orignially and his wife is my friend and was a bridesmaid. Well original best man was a big pain and caused trouble so I told him to knock it off. He got all pissy and told my husband to pick another best man because I hate him. He does this all the time w/ his wife about everything and then she begs him to change his mind. He is quite manipulative. Well we were not going to play these drama games with him and just said okay and his brother was the best man.
This was weeks before wedding and then he began begging us to let him be best man again but programs were already printed and we wouldn't have changed it anyways. He said okay and appeared fine w/ it. Very nice and helpful at the wedding.
So, now he travels a lot for work so we don't see them as much anyways. They seem to never want to talk to us. Or if we make a date to hang out they cancel. Or they will do the very fake yeah let's get together in a few weeks comment, when truly not actually meaning to do it. I dont want to give up too early because they are our friends and we miss them. Also it has always been us having to contact them to hang out and if for some reason we don't within a reasonable amount of time they jump to "you guys never want to hang out with us". So I don;t want to give up to early but at the same time it already feels like it's over.
I get the commet you drop them from the WP you end the friendship but we didn't necessarily drop him, he up and volunteered and then pouted.
Thoughts?