i asked my step dad who has raised me and been apart of my life for 15 plus years to give me away from the time i started to plan my wedding months back. My bio father who forever what reason was not apart of my life. few calls a year basically. I dont know y but i felt i should ask my bio dad to also walk me down isle. 1 on each side. when i told my step dad thats what i wanted not only was i told he wants nothing to do with it now 15 members of family and friends from my side will not attend due to my decision.