invite or not???

stupidsara

One of my fiances groomsmen's girlfriend wants to come, but heres the thing. One of my bridesmaids dated the groomsmen before. They have no problem with it, but I know the groomsmens girlfriend will try and start something on the wedding day, she cannot keep to herself. Do I invite her, as we used to be close, or not invite her and avoid the problem for my big day??? And I know if she doesn't come, than we will have to hear about it from her boyfriend, the groomsmen...I am completely lost!!!

nda_roxybabe

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[QUOTE]One of my fiances groomsmen's girlfriend wants to come, but heres the thing. One of my bridesmaids dated the groomsmen before. They have no problem with it, but I know the groomsmens girlfriend will try and start something on the wedding day, she cannot keep to herself. Do I invite her, as we used to be close, or not invite her and avoid the problem for my big day??? And I know if she doesn't come, than we will have to hear about it from her boyfriend, the groomsmen...I am completely lost!!!
Posted by stupidsara[/QUOTE]
Your groomsmen should absolutely be alooed to bring their gf's

emarston1

If they are in a relationship, you should invite her.  It's that simple.

brilibby4

I think it would be rude to not allow the groomsman to bring a date.  I say invite her.  They are adults and can hopefully control themselves.