My fiance's mom lives in LA and his dad's side of the family live in NJ. I've only met them a few times, but they are the only family he has...long story. It's a 3.5 hour drive from where they are in NJ to where the shower will be held in PA and I don't know if I should invite them. My fiance doesn't know/care either way and my MoH thinks I should invite them. Does anyone have any advice for me on this? Thanks a lot!!