I am running into some toruble... I feel that with my fiance's mother (love her to pieces) and her husband cateringthe wedding that they are going to already want to add to our already extensive guest list... I am looking at at venues and I am hesitant on booking one due to this factor. How do I approach this delicately because I do not want a huge wedding because that would really hinder us as far as our finances go... HELP!