My Fi is the oldest of 7 and and the last 5 yrs he hasnt seen or heard from any of his sisters and has had a falling with 2 of his brothers, and we dont speak to his mother for other reasons. That only leaves his younger brother and his wife I really want them to be with us on our wedding day. I am planning to ask her to be one of my bridesmaids are we wrong for just inviting them and not the rest of the family. We are on a very small budget and i just dont want people there that havent been there in the past. With the exception of the on brother no one in his family has even seen our son who is now 1, and that not from lack of effort on our part.