I was discussing my wedding with my parents (yes, I know it's a long way off, but I have my reasons) and my father had an issue with how far away my intended location is.
My dream would be to get married at BIltmore Estate in Asheville, NC. If I can't get married there, I would still like it to be in western NC/upstate SC. I'm a mountain girl, I just like the mountains.
For my family this is a 3 to 4 hour drive, for my FI's family it's 9 to 10. His family is six different kinds of gung ho about having it in Asheville. As is my mom (my dad proposed in the Biltmore gardens). But my dad doesn't like how far away it is, and is worried about the cost to family memebers because neither I nor my FI come from money.
My parents have offered to pay for the wedding, so I know they have a say about it.
But who is "right" in this? Am I aiming too far away for a wedding?