I've seen lots of wedding photos where the pastor is wearing the same suit as the groom/groomsmen.
My groom is wearing something different than his groomsman.
I don't really care if the pastor matches, but if I do - who pays for his suit?
the groomsmen are going to wear brown and orange, and I know the pastor has a suit that will match nicely. the pastor's not going to be in many of the group pictures with them so I don't think anyone will notice if its not the same exact suit.
I just don't want him assuming that I'll be buying him a new suit. How do I tell him to wear something he already has?
and what do I get him as a thank you for performing the wedding? He's doing it for free. would buying him cufflinks be too weird?