This is a follow up from my post about my friend with the house themed bridal shower.
To re-cap, her sister and MOH e-mailed me (a bridesmaid) last week to give me details about this upcoming shower. It's a house themed shower, with a barbie dream house cake, and guests are going to be asked to bring decor tips and pictures for my friend the bride who is currently house hunting.
The invitations are going to ask for only money - no gifts.
In my reply back to the MOH, I asked if she would think about removing that rude request, or asking the bride to do a registry. Here was her response:
"Unfortunately, X specifically requested money only, as they need money for a house and honeymoon."
Now, my question is, do I let my possibly well-intentioned yet naive puppet-master friend know that many people will find this offensive, or do I just bury my head in the sand and stay out of it?