I'm new to the boards, but I have a question. I am getting married for the second time, but it is my fiance's first wedding. My first marrage ended when my ex-husband left me for his mistress (that's the short story). The first wedding was not a traditional wedding, but a fantasy dress party. We would like to have a traditional ceremony and reception, but I'm nervous people will be upset with me for having a traditional wedding. From what I have read it sounds like we should be fine, but I want really people opinions. So what do you think? Can we have the wedding we want or should we find an alternative?