FB RSVP?

microkelly

FI's aunt just wrote on his wall to count on her and her best friend coming to the wedding. We didn't invite her with a guest and the church is really small as is our reception budget. I don't mind an extra if it it allows once the RSVPs come in. Is it ok to tell her "We cut things pretty tight and did not plan on you bringing a guest. We'd really like to accomadate you but we need to see how the #s look when the RSVPs come in".  

salt78

Perfectly ok. You're on a budget and she's just going to have to respect that.

nnoble4

As long as you only addressed the invitation to her, then you have every right to say that.  If you do not mind having her bring a guest if room allows, let her know your situation.  She should understand.

KentuckyKate

I think it's a fine response, but I would maybe call her instead of FBing her back.

JennaV26

Saying that is fine, but definitely call her instead of FBing.
 
I was in a situation like this where 2 people RSVPed with a guest early in the process and I told them the same thing, that I would like to accomodate their guest, but I would have to see how the numbers turned out by the RSVP deadline. They were understanding.

mysticl

Perfect response.