My FH is a farmer, and hasn't been involved with planning bc he's been busy in the field. We are now less than 2 weeks before the wedding and he's freaking out bc there's alot of people that he doesn't know (his mother's friends) that are invited-I don't know them either. I told him that it's our wedding and we can do whatever we want. We're thinking about just having certain people for the ceremony and telling everyone else to arrive at a later time for the reception party. We're considering mailing out postcards and/or calling people to tell them the change of plans. Any thoughts? Help?? Thank you!!