How old is too young?

Misty17623

I am getting married this summer and my sister in law is having a baby and he will be 3 1/2 months old for the wedding. My sister in law feels strongly about having the baby at the wedding because she feels he will only sleep the whole time.  It will be an evening wedding and my fiance and I feel the baby will be too young to attend.  If the baby does not attend, he will be cared for by his grandparents, which is exactly what will happen when my sister in law attends two other weddings over the summer.  Since there is already a sitter in place for the baby, we dont see why they rather not bring the baby and try to enjoy a night away. Please give me your opinion about the situation.

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]I am getting married this summer and my sister in law is having a baby and he will be 3 1/2 months old for the wedding. My sister in law feels strongly about having the baby at the wedding because she feels he will only sleep the whole time.  It will be an evening wedding and my fiance and I feel the baby will be too young to attend.  If the baby does not attend, he will be cared for by his grandparents, which is exactly what will happen when my sister in law attends two other weddings over the summer.  Since there is already a sitter in place for the baby, we dont see why they rather not bring the baby and try to enjoy a night away. Please give me your opinion about the situation.
Posted by Misty17623[/QUOTE]

Whoa, I'm getting deja vu all over again...

pandasquishy

If the baby is breast feeding, they must be allowed to bring the baby.

Night_Sprite

This already happened.  

beatlesgirl25

Holy crap, this is the same poster. I just checked. Did you mean to repost this on a different board? I think you got your answers from the ladies here earlier today.

nda_roxybabe

Thats a little, tiny baby. I understand thinking that the baby is too young for a wedding like that but that decision is ultimately up to the parents.

P.s. you did ask for our opinions, don't get defensive when you don't like them

MeaghanandMichael

Ok the fact that you already asked this AND already got our opinions is a little sick. Clearly you are pretty unnerved about the baby being there. Get over yourself.

crfische

you are my moron, my only moron,
You make me haaaaappppy when skies are gray.
You never know, MORON,
How dumb we think you are,
Please don't take your moronictype away.

Or do.
I don't know.

crfische

I'm a little suprised that at 3 months, the baby isn't working 40 hours a week.

I mean, really. What does he think this life is? A free ride?

Fucktotheno. GET A JOB STUPID BABY.

nda_roxybabe

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[QUOTE]I'm a little suprised that at 3 months, the baby isn't working 40 hours a week. I mean, really. What does he think this life is? A free ride? Fucktotheno. GET A JOB STUPID BABY.
Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]
DED. really, really DED

Koopa17

Good lord, you have been thinking about this baby all freaking day.  Who gives a fuuck what they do with the baby, just enjoy your wedding and get over it already.

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]Ok the fact that you already asked this AND already got our opinions is a little sick. Clearly you are pretty unnerved about the baby being there. Get over yourself.
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

Don't you get it Meaghan? The baby would <em>really</em> rather not be there.

Koopa17

And when I say who gives a fuuck what they do with the baby, I do not mean you should suggest they let it nap in the car.

crfische

Quite frankly, I think we're overlooking a potential possibility here, crazyfuckingbridelady.

There's gotta be an add on Craig's list for women just DYING to rent out their babies as props. Seriously. Check into it. THEN you'll have a baby for PICTURES, but none of the fuss!

Do EET.

redheadfsu

Glutton for punishment?

MeaghanandMichael

Beatles, I will make you the same deal I make my dogs. If the baby can tell me that in English cool. (Filtet Mignon? ok boys just ask )

Misty17623

good lord people I reposted because I thought maybe OTHER people would give me their opinions...but it seems as if only the same people have enough spare time on their hands to be obsessed with these posts and be able to tell when someone reposts.  I find this hilarious..

Night_Sprite

You are annoying and ungrateful.  Fix it.  That is my opinion and some advice.  Puppies and rainbows!

nda_roxybabe

So, basically you didn't like the answers you got earlier so you figured you'd keep posting until you got what you wanted to hear?
And for the record, I didn't post earlier but I have the same answer as everyone else. Because it is the only, correct answer.

sucrets4

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[QUOTE]good lord people I reposted because I thought maybe OTHER people would give me their opinions...but it seems as if only the same people have enough spare time on their hands to be obsessed with these posts and be able to tell when someone reposts.  I find this hilarious..
Posted by Misty17623[/QUOTE]

Well, you really should have put that in the subject, then:

Attention, this is ONLY if you haven't responded.

I'm pretty sure there are lots of different people are here right now.  Their reaction is the same because you're being a moron about this. 

RachNRich

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[QUOTE]good lord people I reposted because I thought maybe OTHER people would give me their opinions...but it seems as if only the same people have enough spare time on their hands to be obsessed with these posts and be able to tell when someone reposts.  I find this hilarious..
Posted by Misty17623[/QUOTE]

I find YOU hilarious! Thank you for providing me so much entertainment this evening.

Other people (ME) will give you our opinions, but they will be the same. Because we are a cult here. We all drank the Kool-Aid. Sorry about your luck.

redheadfsu

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[QUOTE]good lord people I reposted because I thought maybe OTHER people would give me their opinions...but it seems as if only the same people have enough spare time on their hands to be obsessed with these posts and be able to tell when someone reposts.  I find this hilarious..
Posted by Misty17623[/QUOTE]

Your immaturity shows even more now. People would have posted if they disagreed. I did not post on the orginal thread, but I did lurk.  I think almost everyone has the same opinion on this. Yet you still grasp at straws.

sucrets4

rach - is the kool aid spiked?  Because I really don't need my baby to come out cursing like a pirate and drunk, too.

nda_roxybabe

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[QUOTE]rach - is the kool aid spiked?  Because I really don't need my baby to come out cursing like a pirate and drunk, too.
Posted by sucrets4[/QUOTE]
Don't forget that it hates you too. I feel bad for your unborn child.

sucrets4

I think you should post this on other boards.  Because, you know, we're not allowed to leave here.  Ever.

RachNRich

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[QUOTE]rach - is the kool aid spiked?  Because I really don't need my baby to come out cursing like a pirate and drunk, too.
Posted by sucrets4[/QUOTE]

Oops. Sorry about that. That poor little drunk, prirate hooker (I threw that in for good measure), unborn child. I feel sorry for it.

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]Beatles, I will make you the same deal I make my dogs. If the baby can tell me that in English cool. (Filtet Mignon? ok boys just ask )
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

I think the baby is utterly speechless at OP's lack of couth, therefore we might never know if it speaks English or not.

Koopa17

It's easy to recognize a post this fucking stupid, I don't need to be obsessed with it.  But hey, since you didn't get the answer you WANTED, here it is:

Don't worry, you can tell your FSIL you don't want the baby at the ceremony! It's YOUR day! The baby will only be 3 1/2 months old so it's ok to just have it for pics, as long as it doesn't poop or pee, that will sooo ruin your special day! XOXO!!

sucrets4

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: How old is too young? : Don't forget that it hates you too. I feel bad for your unborn child.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

Yeah???   Well, I feel bad for your THOUGHT child, so THERE!

ring_pop

Geez. If you don't care for the 2 dozen or so opinions telling you one thing, why even bother asking? Just do what you want; clearly your mind is already made up.

beatlesgirl25

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[QUOTE]good lord people I reposted because I thought maybe OTHER people would give me their opinions...but it seems as if only the same people have enough spare time on their hands to be obsessed with these posts and be able to tell when someone reposts.  I find this hilarious..
Posted by Misty17623[/QUOTE]

Here's some advice, since you asked: ALWAYS assume that someone on this board will recognize you and your post, even if you wait months between posting the same question. There are enough regs on here at any time of day and they tend to remember terrible ideas. I wasn't even on during your earlier post, but when I logged on tonight I scrolled down a page to see what had gone on here (people usually do that so they don't repeat someone's question, let alone their own). That's how I recognized your post, because it was bad to begin with, and you got tons of responses and still ventured back for more with a barely modified repeat post.

I think you are the one with spare time on your hands if you are waiting all day to repost an awful question in the hopes you'll get that validation you missed out on earlier.