I see all this info about rehearsal dinner wording, and I know what i want to do on the invite for the DINNER, but how do I get the word out to everyone about the actual rehearsal?? Do I just do word of mouth and then ONLY send out an invite to the dinner? I want JUST the necessary people at the rehearsal (don't need a crowd!), but spouses and stuff are more than welcome to come to the dinner afterwards. Help!