What if someone gets engaged at my wedding reception? Is it ok for someone at your wedding to get engaged at your special event?
I am so scared that it's going to happen. And my fear was heightened yesterday when I found out that an old friend of mine got engaged at her best friend's wedding.
I really don't want to sound like a bridezilla but I need some advice. I have 2 bridesmaids that I think this might happen to. Can I casually make an example of this girl who got engaged at her bf's wedding and tell these two girls how crushed I would be if someone did that at my wedding or should I just let it go?
I am at such a loss here... what should I do?
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[QUOTE]What if someone gets engaged at my wedding reception? Is it ok for someone at your wedding to get engaged at your special event? I am so scared that it's going to happen. And my fear was heightened yesterday when I found out that an old friend of mine got engaged at her best friend's wedding. I really don't want to sound like a bridezilla but I need some advice. I have 2 bridesmaids that I think this might happen to. Can I casually make an example of this girl who got engaged at her bf's wedding and tell these two girls how crushed I would be if someone did that at my wedding or should I just let it go? I am at such a loss here... what should I do?
Posted by mlinck[/QUOTE]
Seriously? SERIOUSLY?
Who would propose at a wedding reception? You have bigger fish to fry m'dear.
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Wow. What a biitch move. I hope that if it happens your BM slaps her BF and says NO! How dare they also get married.
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[QUOTE]I would go, "yay!" and then propose a toast.
Posted by vannymuse[/QUOTE]
Same here!
I would be all passive agressive and do exactly what you're planning. But PP is right, they won't be the one proposing, so you may still be SOL. But good luck and act gracious if it does happen.
ETA: Upon thinking about it, I might be a little happy or excited if the couple getting engaged was someone close to me. However, it it was some second tier friend/relative, I stand by my original statement.
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However, I really don't see it happenning at your wedding.
Seems a little childish.
Another option is, OP can announce she's pregnant at the couples wedding. Hah.
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That said, I think most people wouldn't want to horn in on another celebration and I suspect most people would hold back. I don't think you need to worry about this.
We have some friends that, had they gotten engaged at our wedding, my response would have been "about time! where's the rest of that champagne?". Really. Not a big deal to me.
But, if you think it's going to ruin your day, I suppose the passive aggressive tactic you've laid out is about the only one available to you. That or a really big sign that says "DON'T GET ENGAGED TONIGHT" on the front door.
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HowEVer, I wouldn't mention it, because... well, have some faith in your friends and their significant others to recognize that choosing another day would be for the best. We're talking about adults here, you know? They're just as likely to want a special day for their engagement as your are for your wedding - they probably won't want to share the day, either.
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Dear Mr. and soon-to-be Mrs. AW:
There are no words to express the emotion that overcomes me when I think about how my wedding and your proposal will be forever linked through time.
i also want to thank you for your generous monetary gift. We were going to put it towards a down payment, but I think a better use will be to compensate the photographer for all those amazing shots he took of your proposal. He missed out on Aunt Gertrude was have a touching moment with her kids and grandkids, but I'm sure that can be recreated easily.
Looking forward to your pending nuptuals - I'll be racking my brain with all the ways I can repay you!
Love,
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[QUOTE]I would go, "yay!" and then propose a toast.
Posted by vannymuse[/QUOTE]
Yep. This. (Ha ha, I just annoyed someone).
No really, shouldn't you be happy for your friends engagement? Really? I mean... really?
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If they do that at your wedding, I would try really really hard to get pregnant around 9 months before their wedding, and then at the reception, in the middle of the toast, stand up and yell with your big belly that you are going into labor (even if you just fake it). Ok, so I am only kidding, that is just the first thing that popped into my head. I think I would be upset too if someone tried to steal my day away too, but what are you going to do. Instead of making a big deal, just be happy for them, and everyone else will think that guy was an idiot for proposing at someone elses wedding.
[QUOTE]I think it's rude to upstage someone else's party and I would hope that your BMs significant others would choose another time to propose. That said, I also think it's silly to sit around and worry about it, and you shouldn't say anything. If it happens, it happens. They're not gonna hijack your reception or anything. The fact that someone gets proposed to at your reception won't make everyone forget that the reason they're partying is cause you got married.
Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]
This. I think it's tacky and rude to propose at someone else's wedding reception, but in the end, it probably doesn't matter that much.
ANd, come to think of it, if it did happen, wouldn't it be someone who was pretty close to you (because otherwise, why would be special to propose then?), in which case, I'd probably be pretty psyched for my pals.
[QUOTE]I would go, "yay!" and then propose a toast.
Posted by vannymuse[/QUOTE]
<div>And that would be the graceful response to a not-so-graceful move on the proposer's end. </div><div>
</div><div>The end. Stop worrying about silly things happening at your wedding... or keep it up and you'll start to sound like me! :-)</div><div>
</div><div>You will laugh at yourself when your wedding is over... I know I will, too.</div>
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