I'm working on our guest list ATM, and I'm trying to make sure the names on my spreadsheet match the way we'll be addressing the save the dates and invites. Plus, this is helping to decide how many STDs/invites I will need.
I have a few situations that I need help with(one of which I know I've seen before on TK, but I searched & didn't see an appropriate thread):
Situation A
My MOH will be getting married 3 weeks before my wedding, which means she will be using her maiden name at the time STD's/invites go out, but will be using her married name come time for the wedding. She and FI do not live together presently, but will as soon as they are married. How do I address the invitation, and who do I send it to?
Situation B
My Aunt "G" is in a long-term relationship with "B", but they are not married and do not live together. However, I still refer to "B" as "Uncle B". How do I address the invitation, and to whom do I send it?
I am inclined to address it to "G LastName and B LastName" with my cousin (who will not yet be 18) listed on the line below, and send it to my aunt's home. Is this appropriate?
Situation C
I know that anyone who is 18+ receives an invite, regardless of whether or not they live at home. Is this etiquette rule applied to STD's as well? Or could I get away with sending one STD to a household who will be receiving multiple invites? One household on FI's side is a family of 8 with four of the six children being 18+. It seems a little silly to send 5 STD's to the home, but we will if need be. I'm just not sure if etiquette says sending one would be okay or not.
TYIA, E!