BM says the bachelor party is a surprise and not to worry, I won't be mad at all. I'm not conviced so I call BM's GF. She tells me their plan and I throw up because I'm so upset about it.
They plan to kidnap FI take him to a city 3 hours away and have already made reservations at all the srtip clubs, plan on getting tons of booze and drugs...
I am soooo not okay with this. I'm not really comforable with strippers to begin with...but strippers in another town and a hotel room? No way!
BM's GF agrees with me and so do all the other guys' GFs. We decide that it shouldn't happen. We're all going to meet tonight to figure out what to do.
I don't really know what more to tell the guys to get our point across. Has this happened to anyone else? what did you say?
TIA for any advice! and sorry if this is long