I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point

brittanyjterrell

I hate Knottie rude a** brides

Beachy730

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:83db55d1-5390-43c8-b168-3e6af9a68c27">I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]There are a couple people that I absolutely DESPISE now that I sent save the dates too.... jealous and bitter people who want to see me and my FI fail. I recently learned of this and I refuse to invite them to my wedding. Oh well. This is a time to celebrate US with the people who love us, I don't want ANY negativity!
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]

<div>STD's = invites.  If you really aren't friends with them anymore, then don't invite them.  Between this post and the one on CC, I'm beginning to think you're very young. </div>

Beachy730

And what was the point of this post?  Did you have a question, or just venting?  

Summer2011Bride

STD's=invites. If you didn't like them, you shouldn't have given them STD's to begin with. I think it's kind of an immature thing to do to not give invites now. And yes, what was the point of the post?

slbinpink

This is kinda random... Why post this?

brittanyjterrell

I heard it was not appropriate to send STDs and not send an invitation but I really don't care at this point. I am 23 for those who keep inquiring about my age. Why do you care??

mica178

I totally get the need to vent while planning a wedding.

However, this is an etiquette board.  Why vent here and proclaim that you want to ignore etiquette?

brittanyjterrell

I just know someone here has ignored the whole "if you sent an STD, you HAVE to send an Invite" rule... I can't be the only one. I saw someone ask the question the other day because they no longer invited people.

STOP IT.. you all kill me, like.. it's just a board.. why so serious?

Beachy730

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:a88d7c43-d802-4197-9553-93aee23b354c">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]I heard it was not appropriate to send STDs and not send an invitation but I really don't care at this point. I am 23 for those who keep inquiring about my age. Why do you care??
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]

<div>Because mature, grown adults don't post about how jealous all of their friends are of them. </div><div>
</div><div>And yeah, the etiquette board isn't really the place to say "screw etiquette" and have people support you on it.</div>

Beachy730

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:b0093329-9b8e-4f0b-95f1-297f13b0f5a5">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]I just know someone here has ignored the whole "if you sent an STD, you HAVE to send an Invite" rule... I can't be the only one. I saw someone ask the question the other day because they no longer invited people. STOP IT.. you all kill me, like.. it's just a board.. why so serious?
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Again, you're not going to find people giving you the go-ahead for this on the etiquette board.  Try your mnonth boards, you'll probably find some rude, clueless posters there who say it's fine.

</div>

nda_roxybabe

and...?

p.s. you should take your last name out of your ticker since your first names are in your screenname.

brittanyjterrell

This dnbeach bride really has it in for me... wow.. okay...
and I NEVER said all of my friends were jealous of me.. I said a select few which I'm sure plenty of people have gone through in relationships , I thought maybe someone would give me insight on how to deal with those type of people

brittanyjterrell

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:70184140-19ab-4372-acc0-5f4c01f7594a">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]and...? p.s. you should take your last name out of your ticker since your first names are in your screenname.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

AND...????? Why are you here to see the post if you're not interested and his name is not in my screenname

Beachy730

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:ce47adff-377d-4351-8b9f-81849c489226">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]This dnbeach bride really has it in for me... wow.. okay... and I NEVER said all of my friends were jealous of me.. I said a select few which I'm sure plenty of people have gone through in relationships , I thought maybe someone would give me insight on how to deal with those type of people
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]

<div>I don't have it out for you.  The boards are dead, and I'm bored right now.  </div><div>
</div><div>And no, I have never gone through my friends being jealous of me being in a relationship.  Or if they were, they never would have made it known. </div><div>
</div><div>I don't understand what insight you're looking for.  I don't understand why you would be friends with people like that in the first place, so I have no advice on maintaining the friendship.  I am pretty confident that saying "you're just jealous" isn't going to get you anywhere.</div>

nda_roxybabe

Nope, but its in your bio.

I was reading this because you posted it on the internet. Which is, you know, public.

slbinpink

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:ce47adff-377d-4351-8b9f-81849c489226">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]This dnbeach bride really has it in for me... wow.. okay... and I NEVER said all of my friends were jealous of me.. I said a select few which I'm sure plenty of people have gone through in relationships , I thought maybe someone would give me insight on how to deal with those type of people
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]

Advice on how to deal with them : DONT

Beachy730

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:bfe4d29c-27d2-4c81-99b1-9662b2953034">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point : AND...????? Why are you here to see the post if you're not interested and his name is not in my screenname
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]

<div>Yeah, if he works at Armani Exchange, you might definitely want to delete that name on the ticker.</div>

nda_roxybabe

Or went to Olive Harvey

nda_roxybabe

Or here,
http://weddings.theknot.com/pwp/pwp2/view/MemberPage.aspx?coupleid=4528114429575042&pid=11701480


holy shiit...

Beachy730

I think you said "screw etiquette" a long time ago...

Remember: Wishing Well Wedding so NO GIFTS (Just cards with money to be placed in the wishing well)! Reception will start and end on TIME so don't be LATE! No Kids will be allowed in the reception hall (strict rules of the owners due to 4 hour open bar) and everyone who is bringing an unknown guest is encouraged to RSVP for your guest! Thanks

nda_roxybabe

You don't even need google with that bio. I see this wont be your first etiquette faux pas so hey, I guess might as well throw all etiquette out the window huh?

nda_roxybabe

Oh dnb, I like your page tonight

DeadUtopia

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:899da3d5-42cc-4331-aca5-a01a4e15e490">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]I think you said "screw etiquette" a long time ago... Remember: Wishing Well Wedding so NO GIFTS (Just cards with money to be placed in the wishing well)! Reception will start and end on TIME so don't be LATE! No Kids will be allowed in the reception hall (strict rules of the owners due to 4 hour open bar) and everyone who is bringing an unknown guest is encouraged to RSVP for your guest! Thanks :)
Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]


Haaa!
That is pretty funny...:/

brittanyjterrell

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:a2230c31-ca13-4e76-bb45-ce202f5ade68">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]Or went to Olive Harvey
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

Yes he went there and currently attends DePaul.. so, your point is?

nda_roxybabe

There's this thing called internet safety. It's evident you've never heard of it because you have your entire wedding parties full names listed.

Beachy730

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:b5f1784b-077c-4a91-9c04-2ddf26ec8405">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point : Yes he went there and currently attends DePaul.. so, your point is?
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]

<div>The point is, that while we are having fun joking about it, we are giving you helpful advice.  Based off knowing your full names, we were able to find his resume online, and your full wedding website, complete with names of family members, locations and dates of everything with your wedding.  There have been internet crazies out there that have cancelled people's venues on them.  And honestly, you are providing enough info for that to happen.</div>

DramaGeek

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:21e75d63-73c2-471d-92cd-0446acefccff">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]There's this thing called internet safety. It's evident you've never heard of it because you have your entire wedding parties full names listed.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

<div>I think it's sweet that the grandparents are in the wedding party!</div><div>
</div><div>Brittany, if that is your house I'm seeing on google, it's pretty cute!</div>

slbinpink

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:21e75d63-73c2-471d-92cd-0446acefccff">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]There's this thing called internet safety. It's evident you've never heard of it because you have your entire wedding parties full names listed.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

Yeah, half of her family tree is there, haha

mica178

OP -- this is a public board.  Most of the people here might deliver advice in a sarcastic manner, but in general, people mean well.  That being said, it being a public board, there are people who lurk here who might take your personal information for sinister reasons (identity theft).  Also, those people who you believe are jealous of you can easily Google you and find these posts.  Dnb's advice that you remove personal information from your profile and signature is good.

ootmother2

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:ce47adff-377d-4351-8b9f-81849c489226">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]This dnbeach bride really has it in for me... wow.. okay... and I NEVER said all of my friends were jealous of me.. I said a select few which I'm sure plenty of people have gone through in relationships , I thought maybe someone would give me insight on how to deal with those type of people
Posted by brittanyjterrell[/QUOTE]


It's amazing how you could pick up on whatabitch dnb is!1!  It took me ages and ages to finally get that she's just jealousE

brittanyjterrell

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_really-dont-care-invite-etiquette-this-point?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:42da4a1d-0997-4c93-87fb-cef266497199Post:d3e1a087-538e-4bce-8994-a2684d4634b9">Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I really don't care about "Invite Etiquette" at this point : Yeah, if he works at Armani Exchange, you might definitely want to delete that name on the ticker.
Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]

He actually has two jobs and is working his way through school, he goes to DePaul now and his major is Business. I don't understand how this has anything to do with my post ... but if it makes you all feel better to bring other people down then I'm 100% sure you all will be apart of that 60% divorce rate. Your attitudes disgust me, I absolutely can't believe someone would marry any of you