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Send save the dates to wedding party?

I'm getting ready to send out save the dates, what is the proper etiquette on sending to bridesmaids & groomsmen or not? Thanks!

Re: Send save the dates to wedding party?

  • I sent them to the bridal party and addressed them the same as any other guest. Our friends have been asking about them and I knew the bridal party would love to have them! 
  • I agree with others, I will be sending mine to everyone that is coming, even in the party.
  • I plan on sending them to BP just like I would a regular guest. I know a couple BP members will want them as keepsakes.
  • Do it. Many like to keep all wedding stationary they receive as a keepsake for the loved one's great milestone. If you're concerned about the cost of postage, you may hand deliver to your WP if they live nearby. Otherwise, bite the bullet. They're part of your guest list, therefore you should budget for their STDs and invites along with everyone else.
  • Ditto PPs. I also hand delivered a few of mine because a) I saw the people frequently and also lived with 2 of my BMs so it seemd dumb to mail them and b) to save on postage. 

    My FMIL thought it was weird that I sent her one, and also seemed to think it was weird that I planned on mailing her an invitation too. She said obviously she knows when and where to be, so why waste the paper and stamp? I told her it was no trouble.
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  • I sent them to everyone on the guest list, including our wedding party and pastor.
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