How early should the wedding invites go out? I was thinking about 3 months before to give the guests time schedule their vacation if needed and book the hotel room(s) (the hotel has a cut off for the block of rooms which is one month before the wedding) So we were planning on sending out the invitations in about a month but my MOH is planning my bridal shower and because of time constraints my shower will be two months before my wedding.
My problem is I would kind of like to have a plan for when both the invites go out because I do not want people to get the shower invites without receiving the wedding invites first. BUT I don’t want her to feel like I am trying to micro manage the whole thing....
Would it be horrible if I said nothing and the guests received my shower invites first? (EVERYONE that is invited to my shower is of course invited to my wedding but I don’t want them to feel as if they are not)